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You Just…Don’t…Know

A simple lesson I’ve learned since becoming a church planter…you think you know but you just don’t. Here is what I mean.

When I served as the Executive Pastor at The Connection Church in Kyle, I worked my tail off. I did things that caused stress, made mistakes, and dealt with every kind of issue you could name.

And because of that, I thought I understood my lead Pastors job pretty well.

WRONGO.

Staff and team members, as a fresh pastor just out of a staff role let me say this: you might think you get it but you just don’t. Trust me.

Your lead pastor experiences stress, emotional struggles, fear, worry, doubt, and a bucket full of other things like nobody else on staff. Its a WHOLE NUTHA LEVEL of nasty, no matter how put together he looks each day at the office.

You can’t possibly understand it. Some of you reading this are getting mad. That’s fine. I don’t expect you to get it. But if you ever become the lead pastor of a church…you will.

Here is something you can do: PRAY. Pray your stinking guts out for your pastor. Pray for his marriage, his kids, his stress levels, his worry, his doubt, his fear, his relationship with Christ, and his leadership.

Then, ask God what you can do to help your pastor the most and go for it.

THAT will build a great church.

(Cole, if you are reading this, I understand now. Love you bro.)

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The Women that Make it ALL Happen

Amber and CouperThere is no way I could be launching Revolution Church without my wife. She gives me strength, wisdom, encouragement, and support in ways I never thought were possible.

Rick Warren has Kay.

My mentor, Cole Phillips has Pam.

Steven Furtick has Holly.

Jud Wilhite has Lori.

And if those guys are anything like me, they’d admit that if they had never met their wives, they’d probably be in jail or dead. :)

Amber, I am so thankful to be on this ride of life and this incredible adventure of launching a new church with you!

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All Leaders Should Run a Marathon

I’m dead serious…

The 16 weeks of intense training and the discipline required are outstanding leadership training.

Running 26.2 miles…

  • is not for the weary
  • is not for those who give up easily
  • will HURT.
  • will draw blood.
  • requires passion, desire, and increased energy.
  • requires prayer. (Ok, so maybe a marathon doesn’t require prayer, but it sure makes it easier. :) )
  • takes patience and a step at a time mentality.
  • takes new habits.
  • takes someone at least a little crazy.
  • means you have to give consistent effort.
  • means you do things that hardly anyone else is willing to do.
  • is one of the most rewarding things you’ll ever do.
  • has a HUGE payoff.
  • is easier when you listen and learn always.

And leadership is just about the same.

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Heroes, Rebels, Revolutionaries

I realized something this week. Most of my heroes are or were rebels and revolutionaries. Here are a few examples:

My Dad (Da-O) – This man goes against the grain in every way possible. I love him for it and I am who I am because of all he taught me.

As a kid I loved Jose Canseco – Obviously the wrong kind of rebel…oops. I “struck out” on that one…just like Jose did so often. ;)

Rey Mysterio – A wrestler that did absolutely new and INSANE STUFF if you ask me.

Travis Pastrana – The greatest and most psychotic motocross racer and free-styler of all time. And he’s younger than me. Rent the movie 199 Lives and watch it. It embodies who I am in many ways.

Rick Warren – A rebel for Christ who simply does what the Spirit tells him to. Really, thats ALL you need to be a rebel.

Jesus – Need I say more?

Who are your heroes?

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