• PUMPED UP about our Launch Team Meeting in the morning. We are going to be talking about unity. Awesome!
  • PUMPED UP about our third and final preview service next week. Check it out here and send your friends an Evite.
  • PUMPED about our Ugly Christmas Sweater Party. Go here and watch the video. Hilarious. Thanks Clayton Bell for the great idea!
  • PUMPED that I got to take Toots (Amber) on a date tonight! Had a blast with her…pizza and the Nutcracker…classy!
  • NOT PUMPED about potty training Couper. Man…its the only part of parenting so far that I don’t love 100%. I’d put it at about 90%. :)
  • NOT PUMPED and yet PUMPED about this cold weather. Bad because its COLD. Good because it killed the grass and I love doing my marathon training in the cold.
My new blog buddy Brett Trapp wrote this post on 28 things he’s learned in his 20’s. Since I am so much older and wiser than Brett (3 whopping months) and since I loved it so much, I thought I’d take each of those things and elaborate on them over the next several days.

25. God made people VERY different. If we stop trying to make people think and act like we do, 50% of our relational frustrations will disappear. -Trappstr

There is nowhere you can go and only be with people who are like you. Give it up.

I believe that growing an appreciation of people’s differences is one essence of a rich and rewarding life. Different people, with different hopes, beliefs, and dreams make a beautiful mosaic!

26. College was awesome. Why didn’t I stay longer??? -Trappstr

College was a formality. A mere hurdle in life that I felt I just had to jump over. I will say this: living with my roommate, Michael Scott was a freaking blast. I could have stayed with that longer. Never had so much fun! Oh, and Brett, you can always go back. :)

27. I don’t have it all figured out–about 20% at best. -Trappstr

20% ?!?!?!

MAN! You are incredible! I think I’m more at the 6% range.

28. I’m the most blessed person in the world. -Trappstr

Gotta disagree…that would be me. :)

Wanna fight it out?

My new blog buddy Brett Trapp wrote this post on 28 things he’s learned in his 20’s. Since I am so much older and wiser than Brett (3 whopping months) and since I loved it so much, I thought I’d take each of those things and elaborate on them over the next several days.

22. Saved by the Bell? Still a great show. -Trappstr

Not when your name is Zak. All through school I had to hear crud like “Zak Attack!” and “hey, just like saved by the bell!” or “where’s Screech?” C’mon people. Really.

I have to admit though, I was a lot like Zach from Saved By the Bell when I was in high school. I ran my high school the last two years that I was there.

23. Cultivate perseverance. You’ll need it someday. -Trappstr

Speaking of stupid TV shows we grew up with, do you remember “Family Matters?” The one with Steve Urkel?

I’ll never forget a quote from that show: “You can’t go through life quitting everything. If you’re going to achieve anything, you’ve got to stick with something.”

Learning to stick with it has paid off many times in my life. The road to success is dotted with many tempting parking places. Don’t park.

If you want to experience what I believe is the greatest breeding ground for perseverance in your life, run a marathon.

24. Learning isn’t confined to your schooling. It is a daily pursuit. -Trappstr

A few years back I was at a conference and I heard Rick Warren say something that has stuck with me. He said, “Leaders are learners. The minute you stop learning, you’ll stop leading.”

There is always something that you can learn from any situation, any book you read and any individual you spend time with. You just have to be willing to learn and ditch your pride.

Brett, I’d love to know who you are learning from, reading, etc…write a post on that!

My new blog buddy Brett Trapp wrote this post on 28 things he’s learned in his 20’s. Since I am so much older and wiser than Brett (3 whopping months) and since I loved it so much, I thought I’d take each of those things and elaborate on them over the next several days.

I had to put these three together because they just flow…

19. There are things I’m just not good at and the sooner I can accept that fact, the better. -Trappstr

I still wrestle with this. I need to do what only I can do so that others can do what only they can do. When that happens everyone wins and the best results are produced. Many of us have seen Rudy too many times.

Nobody wants to stink at anything but we all need to stink at much so we can be great at what we were created to do.

20. Humility is a lifelong battle. -Trappstr

Battle is the perfect word. If we understood #19 better we might not have to battle quite as much. I often forget that pride is one of the seven deadly sins. WOW!

21. 90% of people are absolutely dominated by their insecurities. -Trappstr

Back to #19 again. If we focused on what we are great at and quit worrying about what we stink so bad at our insecurities wouldn’t dominate us because we could release them!

My new blog buddy Brett Trapp wrote this post on 28 things he’s learned in his 20’s. Since I am so much older and wiser than Brett (3 whopping months) and since I loved it so much, I thought I’d take each of those things and elaborate on them over the next several days.

18. In general, people live unintentional lives–coasting and reacting to whatever happens around them. This is a recipe for mediocrity. -Trappstr

“Mediocrity.” Buawwwwhaaauuaaaa…few words send such a chill down my spine…

I don’t want to be a reactor. I want to be an intentional activator!  Hence all of this goal setting stuff I am always rambling about.

I am big on goal setting. I just refuse to drift through life. Most people spend more time planning their summer vacation than they do planning their life out. I think that’s a tragedy.

On a completely random yet related note, I also believe that unintentional living is one of the main reasons for so much divorce. Men we have to intentionally PURSUE our wives!

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